Some photos of the Duo - Vancouver New Year's Eve

We decided that rather than hanging out in SD for new years eve, we needed a break and off we went for a white new year's eve to Vancouver. Call it a mini-moon, it was great to see something else and experience something new. We flew into Seattle and drove north - my first US border crossing which was not at all troublesome.. actually easier than the airports.

If you want an interesting wine, cheese and charcuterie experience, you should head to Salt in the Gas Town situated in a street called Blood Alley - yes it does take some work trying to find it.. but nevertheless worth the effort. Great wines and excellent parings.. It reminded us of the restaurant we visited in Slovenia, with Andreja, the Jarvis (pre-child) and Josef P.. the same one when I got the "flu" and headed to sleep early..

We also caught up with Tim and his girlfriend Timberley. Kind of cute actually. and it was good to catch up with him and hear all about his antics - He is the Chevron coverboy and we learnt a lot about how gas is priced..

We also went to Stanley Park in the freezing cold to walk around and get some exercise and got to see all these cool totem poles. As John loves to drive, we also headed up to Whistler for a day - really pretty up there and a great setting for the Olympics in 2010..

Hope you all dig my London pimp style winter coat..

New homes in Southern California

We now have two homes and visitors are more than welcome in either abode.. one is in playa vista, 5 minutes from LAX airport but also 5 minutes away from the beach.. its a tough life... but weekends in SD were way too boring and we need a bit more city life.. jokes aside.. john is now working in LA and I work in airport lounges on most days, so having a home in LA makes tons of sense. so the very first thing I need to tell you about in LA is surfas.. (www.surfasonline.com) which started as a kitchen/restaurant supply store but now is the place for foodies.. a great cheese counter, an impressive boulangerie, and an excellent selection of spices including the great south African spice mixes that turns my cooking from average to something special.. I could spend hours in this place, but John gives me at most 30 minutes or else I may just come out with the entire store. Most importantly, I don't need to do my Waitrose shop everytime I am in the UK as this place has all the "special things" I like.. more to follow from the retro city..

Crazy People - Cutting it tight...

This refers to wedding prep-- if you have had enough of my biggest project ever, our wedding.

I know most of you will not agree with me, but when it comes to air travel, you cannot really get better than British Airways – ease of routes, frequency of flights, good airline music (note to self) and most importantly the flat bed.. Since 2005, I have flown over 60 long haul flights with this airline, to the point that some of the airline attendants recognize me on flights.. especially the London Kuwait Dubai London routes and more recently the London LAX routes. Now British Airways is truly British, you still get the cold yet polite service, weird Shepherd’s pie meal or often the “yes madam, right away madam” response, but it is the flat bed and the loyalty program that attracts me to them.

I relied on the miles I have accumulated time and time again. Holidays to India, Turkey and London (from the US) for John and I – thanks to the loyalty program and it was no different when I needed to make that short trip to South Africa for wedding preparations once in September and then again in October of 2008.

In September 2008, I needed to be in South Africa most importantly for Phares’ wedding. Phares is like a brother to me and often reminds me of the eldest brother that I had.. and there was no way I was going to miss his wedding. So I planned to spend 2 days in Cape Town prior to his wedding in Johannesburg which took place on a Saturday.

If I had planned a wedding from afar about 5 years ago, I don’t think it would have been possible without on the ground continuous help from a wedding organizer. I had some great and focused friends helping me out, and together with their help and that of the internet, I managed to finalize most of the service providers for the wedding.

Hairdressers, make-up, flowers, dresses, décor, priests, entertainment – it is amazing how many South African service providers are flaunting their services on the internet.. From what I could gather weddings is as big business in South Africa as it is in the US and more and more foreigners are getting married in the beautiful venues of South Africa, in order to make their weddings a very affordable yet unique event.. So I was not unique when I interviewed the many service providers for our wedding and many more were very willing to offer their services when they saw that I had a US phone number. The most important things to accomplish on this trip was the dress, the food tasting (John will pair wines a week before the wedding), the priests and the décor. VNL (Vrede en Lust, the venue) sent us menu lists months before the wedding as we needed to make sure that they could accommodate certain requests that we had. Firstly, its not the place of choice for multi-cultural people like John and I. We knew that this would be a challenge irrespective of region.. I am sure many a wine farm in the US would have been sceptical about us. Its not common for a South African of Indian descent to be marrying a half Latvian, half North Korean, American Boy. The wedding organizer at Vrede en Lust was skeptical of our cross culturalism and was even more surprised when she learnt that I was South African born and had only formally left the country 5 years ago – so trying to convince me to purchase Norwegian bottled water for our guests was not going to work, yet she tried anyway.

The Chef, JP (Jean Pierre) on the other hand was great. He had worked in Seoul for 2 years and was intrigued by John’s background and enjoyed the fact that this American Boy loved Karoo Lamb and biltong. He even spoke Korean, which is more than we can say for John :)

When it came to food, I wanted to ensure that we took into consideration most importantly, John’s favorites – caprese salad, carpaccio and a South African favorite karoo lamb. To ensure that the farm could accommodate the Karoo Lamb option, they needed to make sure their organic farmers could rear enough lamb by early November to have it on the table by our wedding.. so as you can see a lot of planning went into this. However there were limitations.. the chefs could not handle serving 3 options for either a main/entrée or a starter/appetizer and we had to remove a few things of the menu. We also had to convince them to flexible on the dessert menu – we wanted the Indian heritage to flow through in the food, and it took numerous tries before we could get the Indian vegetarian option right. We knew that getting them to do Indian desserts was going to be difficult so JP agreed we will get this from outside the farm.

The experience of menu sampling and food tasting was well worth it.. I wish I could do this as a job.. And after watching too many episodes of Ramsey’s Kitchen Nightmares (Ironic that in the US we subscribe to the BBC channels!), I think I will get good at this job.

It was at this point I decided that holding the Thanksgiving Dinner at the wedding venue would be too difficult, as all we got was the venue.. We needed to arrange for everything else to be brought from outside other than food and drink. Chairs, Tables, lighting, heaters etc had to secured from 3rd party providers. Having thanksgiving dinner would be like organizing a mini wedding, so I looked for a restaurant that this could be outsourced to.

I then met with the potential wedding cake maker – Charly’s Bakery, whom I phoned from the US – bad idea… I should also got the signal that this was not going to work out when she told me that she had a special feeling about me and because of that was willing to fit me into her schedule… at a price of course.. Charly’s Bakery is well regarded, consider them the Dior of wedding cakes in South Africa – very expensive and you often have to ask yourself what did you actually buy – superglam but not functional… More expensive when you are calling from a US mobile, and when our numbers (guest attending) started to drop (which was in mid-October), we asked for a smaller cake (from a 120 serving to 80 serving) and Charly’s said no – its not the done thing.. Now if you attended at our wedding you would have noticed that the wedding cake was nothing but small so much so, that we had an entire tier which travelled back with us to Johannesburg.

Motivated by a 2 year old.. why the AWOL?

Dear Friends and Family, Well, I had all those great expectations that given that the wedding was over, I would blog more often, but I am sad to say I failed in keeping my promise. The recession truly kicked in and with it, we have had so many things to resolve that trying to keep up, just became difficult. First and foremost, I started working really hard, not too sure if this was motivated by job insecurity (you never know these days) even though I got promoted at the start of the year.. but all in all, there is a ton lot more to do.. It also has to do with the 9 investments I know work with. I guess investments are like children, once you have them, they need nurturing and it never stops.. there's always something, and as a good friend says, its relentless.. :) Well, I am back after having completed two moves within a fortnight.. We know have home bases in LA and San Diego and I have to say that the former is a whole lot more fun.. and I will letting you know more about our experiences in the retro city. And please do come visit. The other important thing on my list of things to do, was to send our wedding thank you notes.. they have been written just not posted.. so if you dont receive one, John and I would like to thank you sincerely for making all the effort to head to South Africa for our wedding -we hope you had as amazing time as us and thank you for all your wonderful gifts.. now we just need to have you all over to enjoy the great stuff you bought us. My return has been motivated by our favorite two year old.. whose mom mentioned that Jas should update her blog and the two year old replied "Update mine!"Thanks Bea.. all we need for you to do is start reading and then you will be able to keep up with Don Don and Jas. And I am sure that reading is in your not to distant future. More to come....